no one

There are a few things in life I'm still balancing to eliminate the feelings of, 

"oh, xxx thinks I should/shouldn't do this, so I should follow their opinion." 

"xxx made this decision, and it worked for them perfectly, so I should try it, too." 

"what xxx told me about the choice I was debating sounds logical, I should just go with that."

One thing that I'm learning at a progressively fast pace is that no one knows you better than you.

No one can tell you how to wear yourself, because your outward appearance is best worn reflecting how you feel inside. You have a choice to follow the crowd. To talk//behave//dress yourself in a manner that helps you 'fit in.' But if it's not you, you're not fitting in to yourself, which is the most important thing to do in this lifetime before you can progress.

Not only physically//mentally//emotionally, but spiritually too.

No one has a right to try to change your unique characteristics and opinions. Life your life for your own adventures, not someone else's; and that's where you'll find your happiness.